ABC Behavior Builder

Where learning and behavior work together.

ABC Behavior Builder was created to help families, educators, and children find practical tools that support regulation, focus, communication, independence, and emotional well-being. Products are selected based on usefulness, quality, and real-world application in homes, schools, and community settings.

A child using a quiet fidget and sensory basket at a wooden table at home
Collections

Curated kits for real moments

Built around the situations families and teachers actually face — mornings, homework, meltdowns, transitions, restaurants, and rest.

Calm Collection

  • Kindergarten Calm Box
  • Elementary Calm Box
  • Teen Regulation Box
  • Bedtime Calm Box
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Focus Collection

  • ADHD Focus Box
  • Homework Success Kit
  • Executive Function Toolkit
  • Test Anxiety Kit
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School Collection

  • Classroom Teacher Starter Kit
  • Calm-Down Corner Kit
  • Sensory Corner Bundle
  • Substitute Teacher Behavior Kit
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Family and Community Collection

  • Restaurant Rescue Kit
  • Church Quiet Kit
  • Grocery Store Success Kit
  • Waiting Room Kit
  • Road Trip Regulation Kit
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Emotional Regulation Collection

  • Feelings Box
  • Anger Toolbox
  • Anxiety Toolkit
  • Self-Regulation Success Box
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Realistic wooden ABC alphabet blocks in red, golden yellow, and deep blue
Wearable & discreet supports

Support that doesn't stand out

Many children want help that no one else notices. These options provide sensory input quietly, at a desk, on a bus, or in a crowded room.

  • Compression shirts and undershirts
  • Seamless sensory clothing
  • Weighted lap pads
  • Discreet chewable jewelry
  • Sensory bracelets
  • Quiet pocket fidgets
  • Chair bands
  • Compression wraps
  • Noise-reduction headphones
  • Weighted or calming stuffed animals

Individual sensory needs vary. Products should be selected based on the child's needs, comfort, age, and safety.

Coming soon

The ABC Behavior Builder Box

A themed monthly collection of sensory tools, emotional-regulation activities, practical behavior strategies, and exclusive ABC Behavior Builder resources for families and educators.

Each box may include
  • One featured sensory or regulation tool
  • Two or three smaller fidgets or support tools
  • An exclusive ABC Behavior Builder activity
  • Parent or teacher strategy cards
  • A monthly skill-building theme
  • A surprise bonus item
Subscription options
  • Little Learners BoxAges 3–6
  • Elementary Explorer BoxAges 6–11
  • Teen Focus BoxAges 12 and older
  • Teacher Toolbox BoxFor classrooms
  • Family Connection BoxFor the whole family
Join the Behavior Builder Box Waitlist

We're collecting names and email addresses only. Subscriptions are not yet available for purchase — pricing, products, shipping, and inventory are still being finalized.

ABC's Picks

Chosen from experience, not a catalog

Selected by Stacey Holland, former owner of a Colorado Department of Education credentialed therapeutic school.

ABC's Pick

Weighted Lap Pad

Why it was selected
It gives steady, predictable input without drawing attention in a full classroom.
What it may support
May support seated focus, restlessness, and transitions back to work.
Where it may help
Desks, homework tables, car rides, waiting rooms.
Safety & supervision
Choose a weight appropriate to the child's size and make sure they can remove it independently.
ABC's Pick

Discreet Chewable Necklace

Why it was selected
A safer, more socially comfortable option than shirt collars and pencils.
What it may support
May support oral sensory seeking and self-calming.
Where it may help
Classrooms, homework time, community outings.
Safety & supervision
Inspect regularly for wear and replace when damaged. Adult supervision recommended.
ABC's Pick

Calm-Down Corner Kit

Why it was selected
Teachers ask for this constantly — it turns a corner into an actual regulation routine.
What it may support
May support emotional regulation and independent break-taking.
Where it may help
Classrooms, resource rooms, home quiet spaces.
Safety & supervision
Teach the routine before the hard moment; supervise as appropriate to age.
ABC Behavior Builder Originals

Made by ABC Consulting

Original tools designed from real classroom and family practice. These are in development — we'll announce each as it's ready.

ABC Calm CardsComing Soon
ABC Choice CardsComing Soon
ABC Break DeckComing Soon
ABC Behavior Builder JournalComing Soon
ABC Regulation TrackerComing Soon
Visual schedulesComing Soon
Parent advocacy organizersComing Soon
Classroom strategy cardsComing Soon
Emotional-regulation activitiesComing Soon
Printable behavior supportsComing Soon

ABC Behavior Builder products are educational and supportive tools. They are not medical devices and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any condition. Children should be supervised as appropriate. Products should be selected according to age, developmental level, individual needs, allergies, chewing behavior, mobility, and manufacturer safety guidance. Consult an occupational therapist, physician, or other qualified professional when individualized advice is needed.